To
dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend
or ex-husband/wife or that you and your
ex got back together again, suggests that
something or someone in your current life
that is bringing out similar feelings you
felt during the relationship with your ex.
The dream may be a way of alerting you to
the same or similar behavior in a current
relationship. What you learn from that previous
relationship may need to be applied to the
present one so that you do no repeat the
same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers
often highlight the positive experiences
you had with that person.
In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife
in your dream indicates that you are finding
yourself in a situation that you do not
want to be in. It suggests that you are
experiencing a similar relationship or situation
which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable.
To see your mate's ex in your dream suggests
that you may be comparing yourself to the
ex. The dream is trying to tell you not
to make the same relationship mistakes that
ended that relationship.
Alternatively, seeing your ex in your dream
also signifies aspects of yourself that
you have crossed out or neglected.
To see an old ex-boyfriend or girlfriend
from childhood in your dream refers to a
freer, less encumbered relationship. The
dream serves to bring you back to a time
where the responsibilities of adulthood
(or marriage) didn't interfere with the
spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture
the excitement, freedom, and vitality of
youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
To dream that your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend
is giving you advice about your current
relationship suggests that you unconscious
is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes
that you had made with this ex.
To dream that you are being massaged by
your ex suggests that you need to let go
of some of that defensiveness that you have
been putting forth. You may have been putting
up a wall or armor around you. You need
to learn to trust people again.
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